Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
August 11th, 2019 1:11pm
Understand why this behvaiour bothers you. Evaluate your behaviour. Evaluate your behaviour towards the other person. Think about what you’re winning and losing from this behaviour.
PaleRose12
July 9th, 2019 5:50pm
What do you mean by “Diva” you need to explain what you are dealing with please rewrite and send again.
Millichidulinas
July 13th, 2019 8:55am
If you think that she’s not a “diva” just move on and go away. I mean, if you don’t need this kind of person in your life just go away from her/him, if you need her just accept her/him.
Anonymous
July 21st, 2019 7:33pm
Keep in mind that their behavior is a result of their insecurities. They use being a diva as a defense mechanism for hiding their secret worries. Show compassion as much as possible!
Anonymous – Expert in Relationship Stress
October 8th, 2019 9:43am
Ignore them. Be professional, curt and civil. You can control other people’s behavior, thoughts, or feelings – this means that unruly people sometimes have to be let alone so they can be unruly unto themselves.
Dawn04
December 16th, 2016 12:44pm
Let her know how she is making you and others feel. If possible, stop dealing with her – let her realize her own actions are driving away her friends
Apollosdaughter
April 7th, 2019 5:38am
Deal like a diva yourself too! You’re much smatter than you think. And what not can you do. Ask your heart, or hear your subconscious, to get to know the right answer.
generalanesthetiics
June 13th, 2019 12:11am
If at all possible it is best to ignore those around you that act in a way you might not agree with. I have often found that the people who are the most difficult for me to get along with are those struggling the most. Be compassionate and kind but ultimately it is best to keep out of situations where it is negatively affecting you.
HopieRemi
July 7th, 2019 6:57am
I usually tell the person what I am feeling and let them know that it doesn’t come off as well. I try to say it in a kind
Rajnin
July 11th, 2019 8:16pm
if your looking to fit in with their crowd then you have to go along with it. If you don’t like it and want to not deal with it, stay away from them
kindheart14
July 13th, 2019 6:06am
You don’t have to deal with her. She is the one who has to deal with it. You don’t wanna worry about it until it bothers ur daily life physically or mentally. Just stay calm.
Anonymous
July 15th, 2019 11:19am
Give them the ‘pity’ look! Just kidding, but if it really bothers you, just avoid interacting with them.
indigoWest684
July 16th, 2019 10:22pm
The best way to deal with people who you might feel are behaving in a way that you don’t like is to try and not get involved with there behaviour and to focus on yourself and what is best for you. We interact with people from all walks of life. We work with different people and also have friends, family members and relationships. Just as we ourselves have off days people around us also have off days but there behaviour is not our responsibility and we can only be responsible for ourselves and what we do. Just try not to worry too much or overthink and relax, be strong and don’t allow it to affect your day and personal mood. Best of luck.
IrishLauren
July 17th, 2019 8:30pm
I guess it depends on how you feel about it. I would talk to mutual friends and try to understand the reason for it.
Anonymous
August 3rd, 2019 1:33am
Simply ignore them. They are not worth your time. Giving them your time is pointless because you can not change someone who doesn’t want to change.
Brandi4life
August 6th, 2019 1:46am
When someone is acting like a diva they are just doing it for attention most of the time. In order to get them to stop usually the best thing to do is ignore them
BeyondEmpathy
September 28th, 2019 11:27am
Maybe you could spend some time reflecting on what makes you think of them as a DiVA? What are the things that they do that annoy or irritate you? In the moment its your choice as whether you choose to be around them or whether you feel it best to ignore them. Though I sometimes why are their reasons to be the Diva.
xCaringTeenx
October 9th, 2019 1:22pm
Keep treating them nicely no matter how much they bother you. Let them know you’re a strong caring person! Don’t be rude though !!
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