Last before Wedding could be dangerous?
Debate on it, either to support or oppose:
Last fling before Wedding could it be dangerous,? Am here to support the motion that last fling before Wedding is dangerous…
I frown at this ugly and immoral culture we’ve copied from the Western world… This is not an African culture neither is the Bachelor’s Eve or Baby showers ours.
These generation of ours tends to copy what I termed “Animalistic Behavior”
I don’t keep an “Ex” contact, once you agree we’re done, then we’re DONE for good, that doesn’t make us enemies, but keep your distance and don’t come close.
I remember the ugly last fling of one Elohor at Ughelli, she thought it was just a last fling, but she didn’t know she was taking her last breathe as her would be husband traced her to the foolish Ex place and sniff the life out of them.
You might think it’s just one last fun, but there’s no last fun.
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BluntNigerian : 5:01pm On Apr 12
I am just imagining how it would just be…
For two married people that used to be Ex’es, to be often cheating on their legally married spouses, by always coming together to enjoy what they used to enjoy those early days before they went their separate ways.. And after which they would assure themselves that they are forever joined spiritually, but they got so unfortunate to be married to different persons in the physical reality..
Habbaaa..
So, what happened along the line?
Why didn’t they end up marrying themselves??
..
Trust me, with this kind of thinking, they didn’t see what they are doing as cheating..
placeofallure ( f ): 5:32pm On Apr 12
My friend from university days, she had this bf, he didn’t marry her cause it was a few months to his wedding when they started dating, though he’d been pestering her for long, she no gree. Her excuse? he’s a bit elderly – 8/9 years, not sure.
A relationship started and it was hot. My friend, according to her, didn’t know he was that close to marrying his girlfriend, she wouldn’t have agreed to date him.
They made love on his wedding day, dunno how the guy managed with that. He hid it from her. She got to know later that that was his wedding day.
It’s been years now, they’re both married
and they still see. They said they can’t stop. I wonder if the two of them are not crazy, they would’ve just married each other.
So, so for a match made in heaven.
oluwasegun007 ( m ): 2:58pm
Nothing like last fling, once u fling always a fling..
Your last fling should be after you started dating your spouse.
Was invited by my ex to visit her a month to wedding for sex.I just Japa because one I don’t want someone to do same to me, secondly to avoid God’s anger. I just post her till the wedding day.
MYHUBBY ( m ): 3:07pm
BlueBanana:
Virgins date and have exes before they marry and some sleep with their ex before marriage.
Dumbness at its peak. Are your sisters your reference of conclusion?
Any man that’s marrying non virgins lady should request for discount in her Bride price. You can’t be non virgin and your parents will be giving me big list when your dignity and value had been diminished?
To men that don’t have choice, I say kudos. No non virgin will even be in a courtship with me not to talk of marriage, God forbid.
Hisincrease : 3:13pm: Things like this get me angry and encourages the discouragement of marriage for me.
I mean how can I love someone so much and plan to marry her yet she cheats on me and disrespect me by having a fling with her ex/sex partner? It’s even worse when the she does this after a date for the wedding has be choosed(I be mumu for her eyes niyen) She is no longer Worthy of me, she is a whóre and I won’t take that shit from no one no matter how much I loved het. It breaks my heart when I see people taking back cheating partners who have no regards for them.
GUYS IT IS BETTER TO MARRY A VIRGIN SO YOU DON’T HAVE TO DEAL WITH HEARTACHES
WE REALLY SHOULD FILTER WHAT WE LEARN FROM THE WESTERN CULTURES
Rhino1 ( f ): 3:06pm
Do you know how you would feel if this your virgin wife goes wild under your own roof out of your own negligence?
That one sef is worse.
Though it’s good to marry a virgin
Olamide4christ :I concur 100% with you on all you have said.
By God’s grace, I and my wife were virgins when we married 9 years ago and I must say, it’s the best decision I made.
I must say that virgins exist around us, their availability only depends on the circle in which you move in. For those who are GENUINE Christians, they’re are also on the lookout for genuine Christian too. I speak from my own personal experience with my wife
I concur 100% with you on all you have said.
By God’s grace, I and my wife were virgins when we married 9 years ago and I must say, it’s the best decision I made.
I must say that virgins exist around us, their availability only depends on the circle in which you move in. For those who are GENUINE Christians, they’re are also on the lookout for genuine Christians as husbands or wives…so in that sense, it pays to be a genuine Christian too. I speak from my own personal experience with my wife.
Hausaboy239 :
Am still caught up in this!
Had this girl i was dating since 2015,i was 20 in my 300level and she was 18,we really liked each other so much but her parents got someone they thought was good for her, you may have an idea of how northern parents impose marriage on their daughters.
The man they chose for her was much older at least he was up to 45 then although she didn’t like him but there was nothing she could do. We weren’t getting intimate before the marriage issue came up but we started having sex a month before her marriage,we even had sex on her wedding day.
Fast forward to after her marriage,we promised each other we were going to keep off each other but after some months we were back making calls and chatting though she was in another state and i was in school.
More than a year passed by,we were on and off but were fooling ourselves that we were just friends. Whenever she has problems with her hubby i will be the first person she will look for cause she can’t report to her parents(they’re blinded by his money).
Unfortunately i was done with uni and went to serve in Abuja and that was were it started again,she was staying there and the husband had traveled abroad and was staying for bout 8months there.
Cut the story short,we started seeing each other often and anytime we met it happened to the extent that we got used to it!
I finished serving 2017 and got a job in Abuja,she’s still with her husband but we still hook up anytime she’s chanced though it could take months sometimes but I really feel bad when I think bout it and i sincerely want to call it off!
Pls how can i do stop it?
M00N ( m ): 3:59pm
twhy111 :
I knew of a virgin, who got married and is currently having a fling with her first love ex…
She’s trying to experience all those things they couldn’t do together then. She wanna explore even after two kids with her husband.
Virginity is just a status and personal decisions. Not a test for moral principles.
Are you trying to say a person who sleeps around can have better moral conducts/principle than someone who is chaste?
Virginity is also a proof of moral principle, it shows a person is chaste and can actually handle tough situations, it gives their spouse a reason to trust them fully. A virgin person is more likely to commit totally and not cheat in their marriage.
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